How ableism is connected to our disconnection

As often happens, when I started writing this it was a reflection of Kongzi’s ritual psychology, but along the way it turned into a sort...

I have deep satisfying friendships. But they are not quite what I expected they would be, back when I was a lonely person, longing for them.

Fake it till you make it is over.

This entire essay is a disclaimer, a warning about how gentle I will be with you and with my own truth.